Héctor Abad was born in Colombia in 1958 and graduated in Modern Literature in Italy, returned to Colombia in 1987 when a paramilitary group killed his father (a doctor of defenders of human rights founder is now the medical school) but it gets to go to Italy after receiving death threats, back in about 1993 and currently lives in Bogotá.
BRAVA FOR WOMEN IN PRAISE
By Héctor Abad
These new women, if you manage to tie and put under control the donkey sexist within us, are the best partners.
A macho men who are like 96 percent of the male population, women bother us rough character, hard, determined. We derogatory words for it: harpies, witches, old, traumatized, maids, bitter, tomboys, etc. In fact, we are afraid and do not wait to make them pay dearly for their challenge to male power that until recently had held without question. To those who are incorrigibly macho, macho culture and ancestral heritage, these wild animals instinctively bother us that rather than submit to our will, attack and defend.
The female we dream, a dream shaped by centuries of arrogant and genes of animals (even subhuman), consists of a young couple and gentle, sweet and submissive, always with a smile of condescension in her mouth . A pretty woman who does not dispute, that is nice and polite words to say, never claimed, he opens his mouth only to be correct, praise and celebrate our acts silly. To use hands to caress, to have the house spotless, make good food, good drinks and serve to accommodate the flowers in vases. This ideal, fashion magazines confirm we can identify with some kind of outfit for the broadcast on TV at the end of the news, always be a millimeter-ball with incredible curves (they send you kisses and hugs, but do not know), always at your disposal, apparently as if we said "no more you let me know and I'll open my legs," always willing to rapid relief of seminal fluid, shouting ridiculous man (not of this calls are longer and half).
For the young and old macho put us in check these new women, real women, those who do not submit it and protest and continue to dream, rather, with perfect girls give it easy and not put problem. Because these women new demands, they ask, give, they get, scold, contradict, talk and just get naked if they want. These women are not left to give new orders, nor can we leave them planted, or pulled, or pushed aside in silence and if possible in subordinate roles and subordinate positions. The new women study more, know more, have more discipline, more initiative and perhaps because of it is more difficult to get them to pair, because they fear all macho.
But these new women, if you manage to tie and put under control the donkey sexist within us, are the best partners. Not even have to keep them, because they would not allow it because they know that this was always the source of our domain. They no longer allow themselves to maintain, which is another way to buy them, because they know that, and brute force, has settled the power of us males for millennia. If we come to know, if we bear that we correct, we refute the ideas, we point out the mistakes that we do not want to see and vanity deflate at the point of pins, we realize that the new parity is nice, because it makes possible a relationship between equals, where no one commands or is sent. As much as we work (or more) then they also declared the evening tired and cranky, and more importantly, not feel like cooking. At first we will rage, and not see as good and selfless as our holy mother, but better, precisely because they are less holy (sanctified holy) and they have every right not to be.
Aging, like us, and no longer have breast skin or twenties (we also let us look chest and feet, cheeks, the very few hairs), hormones are given cycles of euphoria and bad temper, but it is wise to live and love and if ever in life you need sound advice (it takes forever, daily), or a useful strategy at work or a successful maneuver to be happier, and they will give it, not peladito skin and perfect tits, but these are the delight with which we dream, a dream that when you do not even know what to do with all that.
macho males, we are still animals and it is useless to ask us to stop looking at the girls perfect .. The eyes are going after them, following the curves, because we have inside a stubborn program that over there encourages us, like automatons. But if we also use this inheritance recently, the cerebral cortex, if we are more sensible and rational, if we become more human and less primitive, we realize that these new women, these brave women that demand, work, produce, bother and protest, are the most challenging and consequently the most exciting, most entertaining, the only ones with whom you can establish a lasting relationship, because it is based on more than abracitos and kissing, intercourse or precipitates followed by sadness. These women give us ideas, friendship, passion and curiosity about what is worthwhile, long life and thirst for knowledge.
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men, these brave women !!!!!!!!!!
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